I have never met a brave heroic leader. Some of the best were scared, unsure, and rather average. Even pathetic! What makes them amazing isn't some kind of heroic bravery, it's simply having enough bravery to step forward. And aren't you doing that?

The person that saved me from something troubling, and everyone I know isn't a hero. He isn't brave either. He's a bit stupid and awkward. He is very unremarkable and is an insecure coward. But, he drew people to him and stepped forward when others wouldn't and couldn't. That's all it takes.