We can't wave a wand and force people to give you chocolates, dear. I also can't make any sort of guarantee to the positive or the negative.

What I've urged is that you think of the people you've interacted with. Not every interaction is perfect and we can't be friends or lovers with everybody, but have we been our best selves to others? Have we been confident?

If we celebrate every small victory and not despair at every small loss, we become stronger and more confident people. Confidence is not only infectious, but it's incredibly attractive.

If you've been your best, then someone - or a few someones - may just be planning their gift to you right now.